Love what is it?

& so we all love things , our cell phone ,our games, our pets,basically we all use that four letter word for anything ,and it makes it hard for us to know when is it that we really mean it .but then again when has anyone ever known what the word love means ?
why is it that a person can use this word towards someone else so easily without even knowing that person well, you say it and then you dont mean it ,whats the point anyways? its loving yourself first ,knowing why you love yourself , respecting your self , and importantly accepting yourself for whom you are, and then get to the point of being able to love someone else .
the word LOVE should be something that its really meant, that when it comes out of that person its out of nowhere ,unexpected .
well thats all for today peeps . peace out.